Busy Weekend. Lazy Weekend.

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Well it’s Sunday night. Wow where did the weekend go?  Half of my weekend was busy.  I started at 9:00 AM on Saturday morning and started trimming this terribly overgrown bush in my backyard.  I have been avoiding it. Some of the stems from the bush were taller than me. I had to break out the ladder. Getting the ladder situated in my shrubs is no longer easy since adding all the stones.  I finally had to move a portion of the stones to get the ladder put in place.  I would show you the before pics of the bush but I am too embarrassed. I will show you some of the clippings.

I then deided while I had the stones moved I would put the new cover on my drier exhaust. My husband has been promising to put it on for months and I am tired of seeing the huge gaping hole that any critter or worse,  a spider,  could crawl into.  I had to go to my father in law’s house to get the extension ladder for this one.  I would like to tell you that I whipped that thing on there in no time. Not.  I ran into a few problems and it took a good portion of the day with several thousand trips up and down that ladder.  I may be exaggerating just a little about that. When I finally got it all put together I ran into town to get groceries praying I wouldn’t see anyone that I knew.  I have this incognito look where I wear my hair in a ponytail in a ball cap and glasses.  It usually works. I only saw a couple of people I knew.

look at all the flowers losing their summer glory waiting for fall

Ahhh Sunday a very relaxing day after getting my husband off to a conference. He will be there for four days. I felt like Tom Cruise in Risky Business sliding across the floor.

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You can tell it’s not me traveling this time look at this little suitcase my husband is taking for a four day trip, what????

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So the rest of the day was spent napping, reading, knitting, and hanging out with my fur babies.   A good Sunday.

A busy week coming up. I am headed to Colorado on Saturday for a Cave Convention, yes there really is such a thing, so a lot to do this week to get ready to be gone for a week.

Love your day your way

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Do You Act on Life Or React to Life?

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I used to know a woman, still do as a matter of fact, who could never act on life but simply reacted to life.  Oh yes there is quite a difference.  She is now 75 years old and just lost her husband about a year ago.  She never knew how to make decisions she always let her husband or her children do that for her.  She didn’t even know what she liked.  It was as if she had to ask them before she could give you an answer about anything. I don’t think she can tell you what her favorite flavor of ice cream is even today.  She always waited to see what would happen at work, in life etc.  She simply reacted to whatever life handed  her.  There was not a lot of planning by her.  I have actually known a few people like this and to a great extent we may all have some of this in us.

If you wait until things happen good or bad and you don’t take the bull by the horns, so to speak, then you could be reacting to life.  I think this is someone, and by someone I often mean me,  who maybe doesn’t have the confidence or courage or just the ability to act.  Maybe you wait to see what will happen.  Maybe you wait to see what others will do.  This can be some of the most dangerous things anyone can do.  Maybe you think a situation will get better if you just leave it alone and wait and wait and wait.  Oh hello 2025 how did you get here so quickly? you might become lazy by not acting, you might let your health and well being start to slip.  I think sometimes when I get this placid if feels as though things have become so enormous I just don’t want to deal with it at all.

You could actually spend hours, days and months sitting around worrying about something that might never happen but by golly when it does then you will react to it and not one minute sooner!!!  But it will be there in the back of your mind lurking about when all it might take is a few minutes of your time to handle it and act on it.

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When you react to life this way you have no choice but to react because you have waited until the last minute or not at all and as you know life waits for no one.

I have found myself reacting to life lately instead of acting.  I don’t like it.  I feel unprepared when I do this.  I feel like life is sneaking up on me and I am not ready.  Bam!!! in your face ready or not.  I think this happens for me when I am stressed, overwhelmed by work, feeling indecisive and insecure.  Will I make the right decision? What if? What if? What if?

I used to be more of a worrier than I am now I guess that comes with age.  I had this little “what then” game I played.  What if my house burned? what if I lost my job? what if me or my husband got really sick? ( I never played that game about losing a loved one because I have lost and there is no what if about that, you just deal with it whatever way you can)   With this game I would imagine if this or that particular thing really happened and then what would I do.  I would say and then what would I do? and then?  I played out the entire scenario until I had an answer,  This often helped me alleviate some of the worry and anxiety I felt.  At this point you’re probably questioning my sanity don’t worry I do all the time.    I say all of this because sometimes worry keeps us from acting on life instead of having to react.

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When I have something difficult that I know I am not dealing with I try a few different things.
1. I break it down into manageable doable steps.  Even if that first step is grabbing a piece of paper and making a list of the steps that need to be done.  This helps me to realize that as I complete each step the task is getting more and more doable.  You should have a notes feature on your phone.  This is where I keep a lot of my notes so that I can glance at them frequently and maybe take care of something while I have a few extra minutes.  If it takes you a lot of time and steps, so what? you are getting it done you are acting instead of reacting.

2. If I am really worried about something that seems to be on my mind a lot throughout the day I plan a worry time for this.  I know it sounds silly but I was given this advice from a good friend long ago and it really works.  Sometimes we feel guilty if we are not worrying about something that we think we should be worried about.  This will give you the freedom to put it off until later and then you may find it isn’t even worth worrying about as much as you thought it was.

3. Stop procrastinating!!!! I know this is so much easier said than done.  I am the Queen of procrastination.   And it really helps to “Eat That Frog” first thing in the morning.  Check out this book and my blog post about it and you will understand what it means to “Eat That Frog”

4. Take a mental health break.  Take a walk, pet some fur babies, lay on a blanket in your yard and look at the clouds, read a book.  Do anything that will help you regenerate you enough to want to act on your life instead of simply reacting to what it brings you.

So do you think you act or react to life?  How so?

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All of the beach pictures were taken last year on my trip to Wrightsville Beach near Wilmington North Carolina.  I love this beach me and my husband go every year.  We will be going in October this year a little cool for a beach vacay but I can’t wait!!!!

Love you day your way!!!
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A Quick Trip to Abingdon Virginia and a Long work week.

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Hello hello.   A little over a week ago I took off to Abingdon Virginia for a few days to meet with some of my fellow Attractions folks. We met in Abingdon and stayed at the beautiful Martha Washington Inn. The Inn is very old and was built around 1812. I also heard it was haunted but I didn’t see anything to prove that true.  And I didn’t want to see anything thank you very much.

The Martha Washington Inn is beautiful and has been many things throughout the years. It was built in 1832 as a private residence for General Francis Preston following his successes in the War of 1812.  It was a private residence for him and his wife Sarah and their nine children.

Amazingly the residence was built for under 15,000.00.  In 1858 the home was purchased as an upscale college for young women.  In honor of the first lady of our nation , the school was named Martha Washington College. “The Martha” by locals.  The college operated for over 70 years through the years of the Civil War and the Great Depression.

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The “War Between the States” was soon to have a dramatic effect on the college.  Schoolgirls became nurses and the beautiful grounds became training barracks for the Washington Mounted Rifles. The College was a makeshift hospital for the wounded, both Confederate and Yankee.   Because of the Great Depression, typhoid fever and a declining enrollment the Martha was closed in 1932, standing idle for several years.

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In 1935, The Martha Washington opened as a hotel and  hosted many illustrious guests.
In 1984, The United Company, representing a group of dedicated businessmen, purchased The Martha Washington and began a multi million dollar renovation.

In 1995, The Martha Washington Inn joined The Camberley Collection of fine historic properties.     Wow what a story right????

The Barter Theatre is just across the street from the Inn. We were treated to the production of AIN’T MISBEHAVIN’ the Fats Waller Musical Show and it was awesome.

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Photo courtesy of CGI

A little history of the Barter Theatre:
During the Great Depression a young actor named Robert Porterfield returned to Virginia with an idea to exchange produce from farms and gardens to gain admission to a play.

On June 10, 1933, Barter Theatre opened its doors with the price of admission being the equivalent amount of produce. It was a  great success and for the first production every seat was filled. For additional history check out http://www.bartertheatre.com.

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The following Monday we had all day meetings.  This is a wonderful time for all of the attractions to share what is working and not working for them.  It is a great learning experience.

On Monday night we visited the Birthplace of Country Music in Bristol. I love this place It was my second visit and I enjoyed it as much as the first. I know you are thinking that Nashville is the Birthplace of Country Music but just visit this museum and you will find out that it really was Bristol Virginia.

 

Later that night we ate at a wonderful restaurant called 620 State Street which just happens to be the address as well.  This is an Asian Fusion Restaurant with wonderful food, drinks, and appetizers.  Check it out if you are in the area.

I returned home on Tuesday night and went right back to work on Wednesday.  With the Labor Day weekend approaching we were very busy at work and I worked Saturday as well.  I took Sunday off and spent the day catching up on laundry and doing a little cooking.  I am so tired of fast food.  I also worked on Labor Day Monday so to say I am a little weary is an understatement.  I have basically been going home and crashing every evening.

I recently rejoined the gym I had belonged to before but I honestly have only been there a couple of times since I joined.  I am going to change that this coming week.

I do have a long weekend off, Friday, Saturday and Sunday.  I have a few things planned but I am going to do a lot of chilling as well.

I  have a question for you:  Do you think you act or react to life?  Think about it and I will be posting something on that over the weekend.

See you soon.
Love your day your way

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A Fun Day in Sweetwater

 

 

 

By Lisa, Friday August 24th.

 

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Hi Y’all last week on Saturday I went with my friend Lorie to downtown Sweetwater to visit and shop the antique shops.  This past year a coffee shop and Italian Restaurant have been added so we wanted to check those out too.

We decided to do an early lunch at the Italian restaurant Vitorinos. What a charming place with lots of wood and industrial accents.  You can have piazza, specially made to order, pasta, or what we chose the most AMAZING calzone. I swear four people could have shared this calzone. I got the Italian meatball, with pepperoni and cheese. It was fabulous.

 

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              Look at the size of this Calzone !!!!

After a leisurely lunch we started our walk through town to check out some of the antique and specialty shops that Downtown Sweetwater is famous for.

This shop, Honeysuckle Hollow, had a little bit of everything. A great place to purchase gift items for Birthdays, Wedding or Baby Showers or anything seasonal.  You won’t really find a lot of antiques in this shop but still some beautiful items that you will want to have.

The next shop was Natural Element Interiors. I found a table I love and want. It was 50% off and gorgeous but maybe a little too big for my kitchen. I use my dining room as a home office and small library and also keep my piano there so no chance of making that a dining area now. I have a kitchen table and it is fairly small but just look at this beauty.  Try to imagine it without everything on it ha ha.

This shop has a blend of antiques, furnishings, and gifts and it is so beautifully designed.

Pennington Home was our next stop. All I can say here is elegance and style.  Oh man this shop is absolutely beautiful. You have to check it out.

 

A few Halloween teasers were put out but check out the rest of it.

 

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I think I want everything in this shop.

Next stop was Cones Cupboard Antiques. Some remarkable antiques in this shop. Also a lot of awesome gift items.

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Next stop was Sweetwater Antiques.   I love looking at the antiques in this shop. Is it bad if I say I remember using some of them.  Yikes!!!

Next stop was Dogwood Lane Boutique.  No antiques here but some amazing gift items.  Kelli will be happy to help you find what you are looking for.

Next you have to visit Gallery On Main. This shop houses works of many local artists.  Everything is beautiful and placed perfectly.

 

So after visiting all the shops we made our way back to this coffee shop.

Sweet Station Bake Shop is amazing. Because it was 90 degrees we didn’t get coffee we got a couple of smoothies. I got mango and Lorie got triple berry.  They were yummy.

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What a fun day. Shopping local and hanging with my bestie Lorie.  Come and visit me and I will be your tour guide.

Love your day your way.

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